So you’re single? Whether you just got out of a relationship or have lived the single life for an overstretched period of time, being single has its merits and demerits, but no matter how you feel on your single status, one thing remains true: you are free like a bird. And if you are like most people, it means that you will, one day, find love again.
Based on popular thoughts, single life is often viewed as negative and bitter, but in reality, living single means freedom, drama free, independence and untapped potential for growth….
So while you’re on your journey, here are 5 tips to help you stay single and super excited.
LOVE BEING SINGLE
Single status comes with a whole lot of hurt in you, you feel like you are not good enough. When you love being single, certain things don’t get at you. Discover the things that make you happy, do things that you’ve always wished to do, and spend time with yourself without worries. Give yourself a disciplined time frame to stay single. You’ll find that when you are ok with being single, you’ll be less likely to jump to another wrong one.
GO ON A TRIP
It’s so hard going out alone when you are out of a relationship or you are single, you feel like moving in the comfort of your partner, but the truth is you need to have fun without anyone. Visit cities, countries with exciting views. You will find it adventurous. It helps in self-discovery.
BE WISELY PICKY
Honest truth is you don’t want to get hurt all over again, so there is need for you to be wisely selective with anyone you are dealing with. You don’t want a joker or a time waster to get you hurt. So be picky with your choices and guide your heart till you find the right person that makes it worth the wait.
The way to stay happy while single is to do what makes you happy. Discover your likes and dislikes, your areas of interests, have a list of your top priorities, ambitions, quality goals and work towards achieving them. Ensure the new relationship you are thinking of going into gives you time to be yourself and there is a balance.
MEET NEW PEOPLE
It’s easy to sulk and feel the need to be alone especially when you don’t have that special someone in your life. Don’t be scared to date, Talk to people at your office, at the store, at the gym, etc. it’s a great way to stay social with no pressure or hurt attached. It’s not just about finding someone new; rather it’s a chance to become a more social, free, lively, happy person.
Find opportunities, get yourself busy, and don’t run from challenges or tasks. Be bold to do things that feel like handwork. Say yes to friendship, say yes to career opportunities. Never stay idle. Say No when you need to, never get intimidated by people in relationships. Be bold to find what works for you and go for it.
ENJOY THE LIBERTY
Being single is the best freedom ever. Take advantage of the freedom to discover who you are. Enjoy a drama free life where you owe no one explanations on what you do, how you live or who you are with. You can do what you want when you are single. So go for it and be happy.
Culled from PALMCHAT
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